vent
Imagine getting constantly kicked out of groups because you upset people and somehow assume it is always everyone else's problem.
vent
Who knows 🙂
Maybe it's always the same kind of people thinking the world is just them, when in fact they just have strong authoritarian tendencies and have an inability to communicate, so the only way to channel their emotions triggered by unreflectedness is to ban and kick ppl.
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I think we generally need more offers for people to learn how to communicate to be bale to communicate instead of constantly being triggerd. I would think they take themselves to serious 🫤
vent
@serapath This sort of stuff is exactly why you keep getting kicked out of groups. Saying that people are "triggered" instead of listening to their feelings and admitting personal fault makes for a toxic interaction. You suck at communicating to a point people block you and then pretend it is their fault. Notice how basically nobody else in the ecosystem causes the issues you do and basically nobody else causes the amount of drama that you do.
vent
I do not suck at communication.
You do an adhominem attack here.
"you suck at communication".
But I do have a lot of patience and take peoples word and talk about issues, but the people i was referring to are not capable of expresisng their thoughts and arguments, so they react purely emotional and often toxic and unfairly.
The world is huge and almost nobody blocked me ever and many people appreciate what i do. It's a hand fullf of very self centered authoritarian leftists only
vent
Also - why does nobody else cause "issues"?
Because nobody else dares to speak up. They either leave or are kicked out. Only more cultish followers remain.
I have never really seen philosophy or values being discussed. It's always just a vibe and who is in charge is implicitly clear - nobody talks about the authoritarian structures. if you question them you get banned. no code of conduct or formal procedure needed.
leftist authoritarian cliques. ..i'm leftist too, but anarchist
vent
@mauve
Do they admit my feelings?
It is a small clique of self proclaimed leftists that behave absolutely authoritarian. They dont have code of conducts. They swing the ban hammer as soon as anything controversial is brought up and instead of sharing any arguments they bring in their feeling, disrespecting the feelings of anyone else.
It's a lame excuse and the actual toxic behavior. In an online world, kicking and banning is **violence** - the most extreme choice you can make.