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Imagine getting constantly kicked out of groups because you upset people and somehow assume it is always everyone else's problem.

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@mauve

Who knows 🙂

Maybe it's always the same kind of people thinking the world is just them, when in fact they just have strong authoritarian tendencies and have an inability to communicate, so the only way to channel their emotions triggered by unreflectedness is to ban and kick ppl.
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I think we generally need more offers for people to learn how to communicate to be bale to communicate instead of constantly being triggerd. I would think they take themselves to serious 🫤

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@serapath You're like the cliche of "freedom of speech means I should get to be an asshole everywhere" embodied as a person and your post here is a great example of that.

Notice how nobody else gets kicked from places except spam bots or open trolls.

Having boundries is the foundation of social relations and you feeling entitled to break them is one of your biggest flaws and why you cannot be trusted to engage in good faith.

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@mauve

I am in very diverse communities.
A lot of "authoritarian left" i saw are mostly all white and male, especially in open source programming.

It's those who are in admin charge of groups and they like to kick and ban as soon as they don't feel good, which is when anything is controversial or against their world view, but instead of discussing this - human to human, ...they just acuse people of not respecting their white ass feelings and claim its disrespecting everyone and kick.
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@mauve

Oh and for sure i am not a "freedom of speech means you can be an asshole everywhere".

In fact in dat-ecosystem, there is a consortium with consensus and a code of conduct and we follow the rules in detail.

The same in all communities i participate in.

Where i run into problems is where people dont even have code of conduct.

So what you accuse me of with very little knowledge is at the end very very likely only one thing:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psycholo

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