they get used largely by white people to externalize their preservation of personal comfort, in our experience. we were once labeled as a consent violator for saying this.
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@atax1a That's reasonable! I don't mean to say that everyone should do as I want. Only that I appreciate when folks CW stuff.
@mauve and that, in turn, is also reasonable, because you didn't then turn around and put us on blast as being dangerous :)
@mauve for various reasons elaborated on in the replies, we're only so sympathetic towards that argument.