vent
Imagine getting constantly kicked out of groups because you upset people and somehow assume it is always everyone else's problem.
vent
Who knows 🙂
Maybe it's always the same kind of people thinking the world is just them, when in fact they just have strong authoritarian tendencies and have an inability to communicate, so the only way to channel their emotions triggered by unreflectedness is to ban and kick ppl.
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I think we generally need more offers for people to learn how to communicate to be bale to communicate instead of constantly being triggerd. I would think they take themselves to serious 🫤
vent
You constantly shit talk other projects. You go on huge incoherent rants drowning others out. When people ask you to change something you double down or start shit talking them. When blocked you make new accounts to keep following / ranting at people which is a violation of boundries. When you enter a space you make it instantly more stressful until you finally get kicked out. This is not just me but a pattern others face as well.
Posting on vent post like this is hurtful.
vent
@serapath You are a major reason people get further away from the dat ecosystem. Behavior like this is why it's safer to block you than bother sinking energy into having you mindlessly spew hurtful waste in people's face and be in denial at the outcomes of your actions. And why it's safer for folks to avoid spaces you post than to try to engage and be at risk of you spamming at them.
vent
@mauve
Maybe the right kinds of people get further away.
I did invite everyone, but they dont want.
They want grant money and see dat as competition to get rid of.
Under cinnamon bun, earthstar was part of dat, but later they wanted to distance themselves before i ever said anything.
Instead i was inviting them or offering talks, but that was mostly ignored.
Dat has a consortium, a 501c3, a code of conduct
Other project have for profit companies who pay salaries and folks like to earn