gender, non-binary identity woes
Kinda excited for the day I'll get to hang out in spaces where it/its pronouns are taken seriously instead of with eye boggling.
I think I only have like one person in my life that consistently uses them and it also uses it/its pronouns. It's like how when I came out as a they/them I had to start constantly proving myself, but now it's even with other queer people. 😅
I can see how it'd be hard given how novel it'd be for most folks to encounter though.
Oopsie, looks like my server filled up overnight and now I need to do more clearning. :x
Looks like I'll want to do a more aggressive purge of old attachments. Maybe I should really upgrade to 4+ so I can use the `tootctl accounts prune` API.
Also I think this speaks to there being merit in caching more stuff client side and using content addressing + p2p instead of large central caches.
@nf lmao yeah. The default rental form 410 even encourages applicants to give their SIN even though it's marked as optional it seems kinda dangerous to set that precedent
@jonny looks like it could be related to mating cycles?
@jonny baring her teeth isn't to bite, they have additional olfactory organs that get exposed when they do that.
https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/590875/why-do-cats-leave-mouths-open-after-smelling-something
I see people question @pixelfed over @Mastodon, and that's fine (I ❤️ Mastodon, sent from Mastodon)
However I think it's important to note that Pixelfed has Stories, Collections, Portfolios and much more!
You can post pics on Twitter, but Flickr, 500px and Instagram still thrive!
Portfolios: https://portfolio.pixelfed.social/dansup
Collections: https://pixelfed.social/c/530360750719739665
Use whatever best fits you, and know that @pixelfed + @Mastodon work great together ✨
Buh, house hunting is stressful. You gotta give them a bunch of your personal information and finances and then sit there twiddling your thumbs seeing if you actually get it.
Really hope I get accepted for some of these! Really excited to have a proper washer/dryer in my unit so laundry can be less of a pain. :P
@eater Yeah! Know of any nice graphical tools on top of that by any chance?
This week, I went over to Bluesky and asked people who'd left Mastodon why they left, and lots of people told me. I grabbed the replies and crunched them and wrote up a summary. I think it's really interesting and often kind of wrenching.
https://erinkissane.com/mastodon-is-easy-and-fun-except-when-it-isnt
so far it has been removing files not linked to any posts and boy howdy there is a lot of them.
honestly where did these files even come from?
Whoops, my single user instance with 150 gb of storage got filled up again. 🙃
Found this blog post for pruning data and it's helped.
Hey folks! We've published our first round of #web #tutorials using #Agregore and #IPFS
Learn how to build your own development environment from scratch, or how to make a theme editor to customize the look and feel of Agregore and any compatible web apps.
https://agregore.mauve.moe/blog/2023/07/demos-and-tutorials-first-round
Occult Enby that's making local-first software with peer to peer protocols, mesh networks, and the web.
Exploring what a local-first cyberspace might look like in my spare time.